Being Realistic vs Optimistic


8 days old


It’s important to remember that even if there are really good days there will still be bad days. It’s not a reflection of you or your partner. It’s easy to put the blame on yourself when it comes to anything, but don’t sabotage yourself like that.

Eve had been sleeping like a champ, but last night IDK what happened but she wouldn’t settle from 12-5am. No matter how much food, how many burps or farts I got out of her she continued to cry so obviously it was easy to blame the only other correlation – me. And truthfully who knows maybe I am the one to blame, but it’s not good for you or for her to blame yourself.

Understand that yes, she may be on a hot streak and be doing amazing but that doesn’t mean she will never have a bad day moving forward.

Be gentle, have patience and vibe it out

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